About

On January 11, 2011, we found out we were expecting.  After trying to conceive for three years, we thought our only hurdle was to stay pregnant.  We did.

On August 12, at 33 weeks and 3 days, a congenital diaphragmatic hernia was discovered.  A few weeks later, an amniocentesis revealed an unbalanced translocation of chromosomes 4 and 7.

Benjamin was born on September 15, 2011, at 38 weeks 2 days by spontaneous labor.  4 pounds, 12 ounces of beautiful.  19 inches of amazing.  Far and away the most handsome baby I’ve ever seen.

Benjamin&Daddy

He lived for 15 minutes.

Two months later on November 9th, we had another positive pregnancy test.  Due to a genetic issue (a balanced translocation of chromosomes 4 and 7 in me), there is a 10-15% chance of Benjamin’s issue repeating itself.  Staying pregnant is the least of our worries.

UPDATE (1/19/12) – It’s a girl and her chromosomes are perfect!

UPDATE (7/25/12) – Paisley Loren Santeford was born on Friday, July 13, 2012.  She was 8 lbs., 7 oz., 20 inches long – healthy and gorgeous.

UPDATE (4/6/14)

Oliver Benjamin Santeford arrived April 6, 2014, at 12:00AM to the second!  He was 9 pounds, 3 ounces, snuggly, healthy, and handsome.  It was love at first sight for Big Sister Paisley.

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Our names are Ed and Eva Santeford.  We’ve been married 10 years. Currently we live just outside of Phoenix, Arizona.  Eddie works in insurance and I am now a stay-at-home mom with our daughter, Paisley, son Oliver, and the cat Paisley begged for, Luna Tuna.

We’ve been very open about this experience, so if you are reading this because you have found yourself in a similar situation, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

5 thoughts on “About”

  1. Eva- I know you from SC… found this and thought you might like it for Ben.

    http://femailcreations.com/products/product.aspx?sku=2115115

    oxo,

    Kathy

  2. I have just found your blog after being diagnosed with a BT (5&6).

    I have had 3 miscarriages (don’t know if these are related to the BT).

    Your story gives me soooooo much hope!!

  3. Hi Eva–my husband has a balanced translocation that we discovered after 2 miscarriages. After going through our first IVF with PGD cycle–we were blessed with a beautiful, perfect girl! We have decided to try naturally for #2 given all the hard work IVF was on my body and emotions. We were blessed to become pregnant quickly, but have since miscarried again. I’m wondering if you have any insight or support to offer for those who try naturally to conceive with a BT. Congrats on all your amazing news!!

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